Depression in Children and Young People

A guide for parents on recognizing and supporting children with depression.

Signs of Depression in Children

Symptoms often include sadness or a low mood that doesn't go away, being irritable or grumpy, and losing interest in things they used to enjoy.

  • Having trouble sleeping or sleeping more than usual.
  • Not being able to concentrate.
  • Interacting less with friends and family.
  • Lacking confidence or being indecisive.
  • Eating less than usual or overeating.
  • Having big changes in weight.
  • Seeming unable to relax or be more lethargic than usual.
  • Talking about feeling guilty or worthless.
  • Feeling empty or unable to feel emotions (numb).
  • Having thoughts about suicide or self-harming.
  • Actually self-harming, for example, cutting their skin or taking an overdose.

Why Might a Child be Depressed?

Things that increase the risk of depression in children include:

  • Family difficulties.
  • Bullying.
  • Physical, emotional or sexual abuse.
  • A family history of depression or other mental health problems.

Often it's caused by a mixture of things. For example, your child may have a tendency to get depression and also have experienced some difficult life events.

How to Help Your Child

If you think your child may be depressed, it's important to talk to them.

  • Try to find out what's troubling them and how they're feeling. Take it seriously.
  • If they don't want to talk to you, let them know you're concerned and there for them. Encourage them to talk to someone else they trust.
  • If you think your child is depressed, or you're concerned about their wellbeing, make an appointment with them to see a GP.
  • A GP can refer your child to a local children and young people's mental health service (CYPMHS) for specialist help.

Source: Information adapted from the NHS website.